Recently I read an article from the Multi-taskingMom about why they quit homeschooling. Only it wasn't what you would think it would be about. She just shared how their family went from trying to duplicate public school in their home to relaxing and turned the focus to creating a learning environment for their children. And I love SimpleHomeschool's honesty in her post "What about Me?". She opened up about how frazzled she had gotten trying to juggle it all amidst poor time management and a lack of prioritizing. And she shared a couple of steps she took to make things more manageable for her and the whole family.
Mom's Mustard Seeds shared how she was quitting homeschooling to begin discipling her children. Oh, how I needed to hear that. She mentions how sometimes the world (even inside our homeschool or church communities) can be vindictive and tries to tell you to do things this way or that way, pulling you in all directions. Regardless of all the fuss over curriculum, teaching methods, etc... when it comes down to it, our primary purpose in parenting is really to lead our children to the cross.
But what to do? Habits are so hard to change. Seriously, when you are in a rut it is so hard to create new patterns of behavior. I have been in a deep rut. One full of mud and muck that is keeping me from moving forward. But its not going to be this way forever. I know that balance in my life is important and even thought it isn't easy, I am doing something about it. I am working on spending more time connecting with my children than connected to the internet. I am taking my focus off of reading about the various teaching methods and actually devoting time and attention to what my son is interested in learning. I've cut back on things that were a burden and am trying to do more of the things that fill me up. Little by little I am working on developing new, healthier habits for myself that will benefit me and my family.